I Forgive You – I Forgive Myself

Forgiveness is letting go. Forgiveness is moving forward. Forgiveness is Love.

We are All Best Friends at a Higher Level

We’ve all held a grudge against someone at one point or another through our many experiences. We do this because of the pain that we feel. We believe that someone hurt us, that they should not have, and until they remedy the situation, we hold to these energies of begrudging. Sometimes we hold onto these energies for entire lifetimes and beyond. But you do not have to. There is another way.

I offer a new perspective – a perspective of Love.

You came into this aspect of you, forgetting who you truly are so that you can experience the contrast of who you are, which enables you to experience and remember the true You. You see, before this you knew who you were, but you wanted to experience yourself and this is the only way to do so.

Many of us in this time period that we are in have experienced the far depths of dark places. We have come so far and have grown so much, but we still hold onto grudges towards people from these experiences. Without consciously realizing it, we have placed a brick wall in the center of our path towards Love.

Start today by asking yourself why the wall is there.

Every experience you experience is a creation of yours. You created your body, you created being born into your particular family, and you created the experience that you are holding onto as pain or fear. Every situation we encounter is a situation that we vibrationally match up to in the moment. But there is more to this as you may feel. Soul Contracts are binding agreements between two souls to assist the other on their journey of experiencing all that they are. That’s right, assist. If this is resonating with you, if you feel the truth in these words, than most likely it is because you had a contract with this person that you are begrudging.

For instance, you and I may decide before coming into this aspect of ourselves that we will play a game together. I will be the bad guy and you the good guy. Together we create experiences of deep contrast, which may include any of the deep emotions that stem from fear. We create this, we assist each other in experiencing these emotions simply because it is the contrast, and to experience the fullness of who we are, we must experience duality, Yin & Yang, Light & Dark.

If you can pull yourself up to a higher level of perceiving, you will see that these experiences of fear and pain that you hold onto are all part of the Divinely laid out trajectories that you chose for this aspect of you. You will shift your perspective from that of fear to that of Love, and you will finally be able to release the begrudging energies and set yourself free. At a higher level, all of us are best friends. Yes, even that guy that “hurt you” so badly. Each one of us on this planet is equally Devine in who they are, because they are you, and you are them. We are all one. Do not choose to limit and categorize yourself into a box that says I am this, or I am that. You are everything.

Choose to let go. Choose to remember your Divinity, as well as the Divinity of those whom you have played in the mud with. Let go and set yourself free to create yourself anew. You are Love energy in it’s highest and purest form. You are God manifesting itself through light. Feel the truth in this statement and move forward Dear One. Move forward towards remembering and becoming that who you truly are, Love energy. 

Take Your Power Back by Cutting Unhealthy Cords

We are first and foremost energy beings. We create and send energetic signals and strings to people when we think about them. It is when we imbue our energies with theirs that we create cords that energetically tie us and the other person. Some people are so strong with their energy that their cords can be considered cruse ship size

Cords are not inherently negative and when used appropriately they can be of benefit. But if the cord involves attachment to past creations that no longer serve you in your present now, you should consider cutting it.  

Choose to be conscious of your cords. If you find yourself thinking about someone without knowing why, chances are this is due to the cord you have attached to them. Get into the habit of noticing these cords and asking the question, is this a beneficial cord, or it it one I should let go of? Does it feel good to you or does it cause you fear or pain?

Cords have two ends. Choose to keep your power; do not victimize yourself by thinking that the other must release so that you may do the same. You control your filter that defines what gets through to you. Define with the universe what energies you wish to let in. 

Seattle, Washington - Summer 2010

An Exercise of Release:

Sit or lay in a comfortable position and listen to soft music if you choose. Focus on and see yourself laying in a safe and serene environment. Feel the love of that which you are surrounding and imbuing your body. If you are open to this, ask your guides to assist you and surround you with love. Let your intuition take you to the place on your body that you have placed the cord that is no longer beneficial. You may suddenly think about or feel a sensation in your heart or elsewhere. This is your intuition telling you where the cord is. Focus on and see the cord in your mind. See yourself reaching in as close to your body as your can (use your mind to energetically extend your fingers into your body if you like) and rip the cord out. See yourself throwing the cord and feel and see it turn into light. obliterate it. Always do what feels right to you in the moment. Make sound effects if that makes sense.

Next, focus on your filter, see it as a force field that surrounds you. With your focused intent, grow your force field strong. See it thicken in your mind. Use your imagination along with your intuition to do what feels right. Intently build the thickness and strength of your force field daily until you feel your filter working as desired.  

Depending on the strength of the attachment, this process of cutting and then building and defining your filter may take some time. Be easy on yourself. If you find yourself re-attaching the cord, know that it is okay and that this too is part of the process of defining your filter. The best part about all of this is that once you clearly define your filter you won't have to think about it again. You have expressed to the universe what you want and the universe will respond accordingly by sending different experiences to you.  

Choose to filter rather than to close down. Choose to experience benevolence. Choose to experience joy. Choose to experience love.

The more that we cut the cords of unhealthy attachment, the more we send love to ourself, the more we become more of that which we truly are - love.